Why I Go to Psychics/Healers/Seminars
I go to psychics because I look at it as a step towards preparing for life. When I get ready for work in the morning, I look outside, then check the weather channel for the coming day. I bring an umbrella if it looks as if it will rain. I bring an extra scarf if it looks like it will be windy. If it’s super sunny, I put on sunscreen. When I get my readings, it’s to do the same thing but long term for my life.
Often, a good psychic or healer can unearth unresolved desires or needs. The expression of this can be considered a healing. They can spark the fire under your tush that can get you going. Energy is expressed in so very many ways. In my experience, many people have this brain chatter thing going on and are unconscious of their desires and the body, the soul or psyche is trying to bring it to your attention. I doubt very much people want to be ill, be in a crappy job or relationship but often it’s how we learn. Sometimes, you can learn through joy! I vote for this but have to say it’s often not the way I’ve learned. In the end, healing is about you. You can interact with healers and psychics all you want, but you have to do the work. If someone tells you that your healing is what THEY create you need to get away from them. They misunderstand their place in healing. You can heal someone and make a symptom go away but if the person being healed doesn’t understand and integrate the change underlying it, it won’t do any good.
Healing is always a partnership, between yourself and God (aka the Universe) and whoever or whatever is brought to your attention. Pay attention! If something comes up over and over again, you need to work on it or at least acknowledge it. I used to joke that the guys I dated were all the same guy – just different bodies. I sat down to figure out why these unsatisfactory relationships were coming up over and over and realized that I needed to make a decision and stop giving my number to guys who were not nice to me. The way I did it was by putting it in context of my sister, who I adore. If someone treated my sister this way, what would I think? And then I had to act accordingly. I had a bad habit of allowing a lot of unacceptable behavior because I was taught that a woman had to forgive those “little” things. But truly, if it wasn’t good enough for my sister, then it wasn’t good enough for me. It was only after I began to do this that I was able to weed out the guys who were not good for me. I met my (insert all superlative adjectives here: funny, handsome, loving, kind, etc..) husband soon after I got the hang of this. Issue healed. Thank God.
It seems simple, but I had a belief that you met people and magically a spark would ignite and then true love would ensue. Often, it was actually a recognition of a behavior that was familiar because of something in my formative life. It felt familiar because it was how my father treated my mother. If you see examples of relationships as you grow up, good or bad, you will integrate that into your self and then what comes out is the blueprint of your own future relationships. You can then, as a grown up person choose whether or not this is a good or bad thing. If it’s a good thing don’t change it. If it’s a bad thing - change it. Simple but difficult. Which is why you need guidance along the way.
